I?m laidback, down-to-earth, go-with-the-flow...smart, unique, have a lot to offer. Looking for a cool, cute younger guy (20s - 30s) to build a real connection, explore and share openly, do fun activities together, be passionate with. A strong mental/emotional bond combined with intense physical attraction. I would love to meet a highly intelligent, engaging, interesting guy with whom I could have more than just a physical relationship...although the physical part is definitely desired, if the chemistry is there.

I listed younger to be more easily found on here, and because I look and feel younger than I am. I?m in my 40s but definitely not like most women my age. A younger guy is my best match and I'm seeking a younger guy who digs older women.

I'm at my best one-on-one and prefer having a few close friends. Thoughtful and playful, very open-minded, compassionate, unpretentious. A writer at heart. Appreciate irreverent, witty humor. Love music. Adore kissing, sensuality, and creative, affectionate intimacy...guys have told me I have a sexy aura.

Don't have or want kids and seek a guy who feels likewise.

Drawn to people who are outside the norm and stay true to themselves, have creative or musical ability, love animals and nature.

I like white...boyish looks...slim, lean or athletic build...in shape...not very hairy...clean-shaven...short or buzzcut hair. A mix of clean-cut and edgy...a sense of style is a plus.

Confident, honest, open-minded, sweet, caring, funny, responsible but has a wild side. Affectionate and romantic, enjoys cuddling and kissing, very sensual and intimately adventurous.

Passionate about music. Not a sports nut. Health conscious, takes care of his appearance. I like a guy who enjoys dancing, or will at least give it a try.

Most importantly, I need a guy who stimulates my mind and sparks my imagination...conversation flows and we can be very revealing, share anything and everything, truly be ourselves and be accepted for how we are deep down.